Monday, March 27, 2023

 Hello all you fans of violent movies that kill lots of people for no good reason.  JOHN WICK movies are the perfect example of excessive violence.  I am a fan, of action movies that have some unique moves, action sequences that transcend the expected and fly into the realm of the impossible but do it so well that it does not matter.  John Wick movies have always been that for me.  Keanu Reeves has the right mixture of a star that can makes us root for him because of some undefinable likability but also can convince us of the potential violence that is ready to explode without thought or conscience. Each of the movies in the JOHN WICK series are satisfying in all regards. I will admit to a problem justifying all the killing in #4 because John is directly responsible for the mess he finds himself. He broke the rule even after being reminded of the consequences and a lot of people died because of him, including friends. I could not root for him at the beginning of #4 but I went to see the movie anyway, having already invested in #1 - #3.  Have to finish what I started.  I am glad I did because it was awesome.  The 222 stairs left ME breathless even as I sat in my chair watching it.  Awesome ending also.  Well worth the time and money spent on it.

I want to explain why I like these movies.  It is not because I want to kill people, I am actually non-violet and non-NRA and I do not own a gun, although I may get one if the Republicans do not settle down.  I think it boils down to good guys vs bad guys and the good guys win.  In the case of JOHN WICK, it is hard to tell who is the good guy, we are calling John Wick the good guy because he wanted out of the life and got out, but went back to it at the first opportunity, so he is a good guy?  He is a dog lover so he cannot be all bad so we will go with that.  John Wick, Bowery King, Charon, and Winston are good guys (even though they are not). Let us call the four of them good friends.  So now who are the bad guys? Russian mob are the bad guys or good guys depending on the movie. The bad guys in #4 are THE TABLE and we don't know who they are except for their representative who really wants John Wick dead. With a huge price on his head, a lot of people want John Wick dead.  The action is spectacular, very well choreographed, and the choreography is what keeps me interested.  Fight sequences and car chases and such are designed and rehearsed (if possible) and when it is done, the actors get up and go home and eat dinner.  I have seen car crashes in real life and get sick to my stomach because it involves real people spilling actual blood.  and Tarantino movies are a bit much, excessive violence for the sake of violence. The HATEFUL EIGHT was awful, I am so sorry I watched it.  But I sat through four JOHN WICK movies and loved it. Go figure.

Friday, October 28, 2022

 Hi guys. Have yiu read the article from 12UP about the 40 Things that Baby Boomers Do That the rest of Us Don't Understand. Written well and amusing to a small degree. But as usual with Millennials and Gen z and Z and all others below the age of 50; you like to lump ALL baby boomers into a net box and put us on the shelf. Like we have nothing to contribute. Like we are all the same. I read the first 10 and found nothing of me in the article and I was born in 1955. Right in the middle of the baby boomer years. I have never eaten dry toast, watched infomercials or bought anything from QVC. My 40 year old daughter uses Yahoo and I use Gmail. I read a lot about the qualities that are supposed to be exhibited by Millenials to differentiate them from Gen X or Z don't trust any of it. People are too diverse to put in boxes. We are shaped by the circumstances around the time period we are born into but also have the capacity to change and adapt. When you see an older person do not assume they are incompetent or racist or rich because they are older. I don't not assume that you are unmotivated because you are working a nothing job. I don't assume you are weak and useless because you are still living with your parents. Maybe you are. Not for me to say. Maybe you should lay off the weed. It drains you of ambition. Have I put out enough stereotypes or should I throw in a few more?

Tuesday, July 26, 2022

My new life day 2

 Hi. Day 2 and we finally have rain. Received a 20 minute downpour this afternoon. Water running in rivers in the parking lot. Half an hour later you could not tell it rained except for puddles in the road. 

Right now it is midnight plus 30 minutes and lightning woke me up. We are having a thunderstorm. Now I cannot sleep. So I get up to unpack a box with my office stuff in it. I am going to the office tomorrow to work as I do not yet have internet access.  I will get it next week. Meantime I will have to scrounge for internet access. Starbucks down the road is a possibility.  There is also a business center here at the apartment complex. Two actual offices are available first come first served. I will check it out.

My family is a little weirded out by my being here, in this apartment. Leasing agents don't use the word "apartment", the term is "home". My "home" feels more like a hotel then a "home".

Words have power. Calling this space a "home" rather than "apartment" makes it more personal somehow. A space you may want to be in. It is a nice space. Crown molding in the living/dining area. Large bathroom with ample storage and a large bathtub. Walk in closet. Full size washer and dryer. Queen size bed plus room for my desk/printer/file cabinet without crowding. I would not have chosen this place if I did not feel I could be comfortable here. 

I bought a couch that has two loungers and I bought a new dining table. They were delivered today. Look good. Was debating on whether I should get a dining table and use the space for something else  but I am glad that I decided on the table. I find the table is useful and I need the horizontal surface for doing stuff other than just eating. Dining tables are the heart of a home. I need a heart in my home. 

Our poor excuse for a thunderstorm seems to be over. Someone somewhere is getting a ripping good storm but we got the outskirts. Barely a tease. Oh well. Really good storms can be scary with all the vertical and horizontal lightning. Be grateful for the rain.

Need to go to bed now. Try to sleep. 6 am is coming whether I want it to or not. 

Sunday, July 24, 2022

My new life

 First day of my new life. No longer living with my daughter and granddaughters.  Cut that umbilical cord (painful process.) Moved into a one bedroom apartment yesterday. Slept great last night in my new place. Little discombobulated this morning.  Maybe because I am so tired. Body hurts from moving.  

Sitting on my patio in the relatively cool morning breeze. I live in Phoenix az and this is July. Yesterday was partly cloudy and 108. This morning is 85 and cloudy. Should be 102 today with a 15% chance of rain. I check the weather every morning to find out of there is a chance of rain. And rejoice at any moisture from the sky. It is refreshing and life affirming. On average Phoenix receives 7 inches of rain per year. A big rain is an event to talk about.

My first day and have already impacted one of my neighbors.  A nice young man with a dog that he walks a lot. He said his dog was friendly and then qualified that by saying "well unless" and I stopped him there. I showed him my arm that is healing from a rather bad dog bite and said "forgive me if I don't want to pet him." He said "that is awful. So sorry" and takes his dog in the other direction if he sees me. Only a couple of times but I thought that is very sensitive and sweet of him. Lots of people would try to convince me that their dog is different but not him. I respect him for it. 

My apartment is only 720 Sq ft but roomy enough for a living room, dining room, bathroom with soaker tub and lots of counter space, kitchen, a bedroom where I set up my queen bed, dresser and TV and my work desk and in all the rooms I have space to walk around. I have a walk in closet which is great. All in all, for my first day, plenty of space for me.

I am tired in my bones but I know I need to get some work done today organizing things. I will feel better if I do.


Saturday, March 26, 2022

Time off

After a stress filled few months, personally and professionally, I am finally taking some time off work and away from home. A few days to rest, sleep, drive a few hundred miles (I like to drive), and take hundreds of pictures of gorgeous scenery.  

I was so wound up on my first day of my vacation I looked up how to relax on the internet. After looking at several websites related to relaxation I gave myself permission to not fill my days with activity.  I gave myself permission to read or sleep or sit on the balcony of my hotel rooom and watch the sun go down. To not worry about the things I am neglecting at home. To take some time and unwind the nerves. 

I have been gone 3 days now and going home tomorrow.  I feel better. I need to so this more often or find something I  can do at home to relax which is more cost effective if not as much fun. Yoga has never appealed to me but might be worth a try.  Meditation might be better if it helps the physical as well as the mental effect of stress. Will have to try. I want this feeling to continue.

So tomorrow will go home and put my pictures on the computer screen and revel in the awesome pictures I took. Slot canyon and Painted Desert in Arizona USA. Worth the trip. If you come here don't miss the roadside attraction where you can see dinosaur footprints. Bye for now. Sleep awaits.



Wednesday, March 9, 2022

   Hi. Anybody watching REACHER on PRIME VIDEO? Pretty cool. Did not read the books by Lee Childs so I cannot discuss differences between the books and the show. The characters are not typical for this type of show for the most part. Reacher is not what I expected, l am happy to say. I like Findley and Roscoe just as much as Reacher. Unexpected moments of humanity in the right places and stiff necked resolve in others. Great way to spend a few hours. 

Thursday, February 24, 2022

Democrat who supports the second amendment

 I am sure there are other democrats who believe in our right to bear arms. I would like to hear from some. Anyone out there? I feel so alone.